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Thoughts on the 5th Annual Jonah Maccabee Concert

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Somehow, this never got published. I wrote it shortly after our March 2014 concert, but life must have gotten away from me and this just sat in the bullpen. Well, here it is now. I hope it’s still got some resonance.

Billy


 

2014 Jonah Maccabee ConcertThis year’s 5th Annual Jonah Maccabee Concert has come and gone. 200 attendees were giddy with spirit as Julie Silver and Ken Chasen (joined by violinist Elana Arian, percussionist Yuval Lion and bassist Dave Phillips) filled the room and our hearts with two hours of great music. The money raised from the concert will provide scholarships to help young people at Woodlands Community Temple participate in URJ summer programs whose families would otherwise be unable to send them.

Here’s the letter we included in the evening’s program:

Dear friends,

It’s been five years since the night Jonah died. In that time, our family has walked often along the broken road that runs through the valley of the shadow. But we never walked it alone. How fortunate and grateful we are for you, our family and friends, who never left us to find our own way without your compassion and love alongside. You’ve mourned with us, cried with us and, when we were ready, helped us rebuild the joy in our lives. Thank you.

You’ve also joined us in celebrating Jonah’s life through this now annual Jonah Maccabee Concert. Not for nothing did Jonah love music. After all, he wasn’t born with that ukulele in his hands. Music is dear to our entire family. And whether we’re singing around the piano or just listening to iTunes, Jonah’s love was our love too. We’re so pleased to share the music of Julie Silver and Ken Chasen with you this evening – two super musicians and wonderful friends whom we’ve wanted you to meet for a long time.

In one of his college applications, Jonah wrote: Although school made its own contribution to my musical career, a bigger influence still was the time I’ve spent at Jewish summer camps. Every summer of my life was spent at either Kutz Camp in Warwick, NY, or Eisner Camp in Great Barrington, MA. A little known fact in this day and age is that Jewish summer camps give birth to incredibly talented musicians. As I developed, the big thing was guitar. Either you knew how to play it, or you loved someone who did. The first 12 years I just got to watch. At the end of my 12th summer, I bought my first guitar.

Jonah’s story is a common one. His dad fell in love with Jewish music at the URJ camp in Indiana. His mom fell in love with it at Kutz. It happened to Julie Silver at Camp Pembroke in Massachusetts. And to Ken Chasen also at the URJ camp in Indiana. Our summer camps offer so many gifts to our kids. For a lot of them, the music will accompany them home and shape their journeys across their entire lives. The melodies may change, the back-beats shift, but the accompaniment plays on forever. And life is better for it.

Jonah loved making music. In doing so, he reflected one of humankind’s greatest loves. As Plato taught, “Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything.” Who wouldn’t want to be part of that?

Thanks for coming tonight. Enjoy the music … always!

Ellen, Billy, Katie and Aiden Dreskin

5th Annual Jonah Concert Julie Silver & Ken Chasen March 2014

5th Annual Jonah Concert
Julie Silver & Ken Chasen
March 2014

As always, the evening opened with Havdalah. We bring Shabbat to a close with this ceremony, and also think a bit about Jonah. Here are the words that Ellen and I shared:

The Rubik’s Cube appears to be one of life’s great mysteries. The fifty-four colored squares on its six faces can be arranged in something like forty-three quintillion possible configurations. And all but one of those configurations are wrong. Jonah knew how to solve the Cube. It’s an awesome experience watching someone do that. It makes you think they’re some kind of genius. But of course, anyone can do it if you study the solution, follow the directions, and you’re really patient. The thing about Jonah is that he didn’t just enjoy solving the Cube, he loved teaching others to solve it. He did the same thing with his guitar and his ukulele. Jonah had no interest in keeping secrets. If he knew something, and you were curious about it, he’d teach it to you.

They say the Rubik’s Cube can be solved in a hundred moves. If you’re really good, in as few as twenty. Some can solve it blindfolded. Some with one hand. And some even with their feet. But the solutions all require knowledge of the path forward. It’s nearly impossible to solve the Cube without learning how. URJ summer camps teach. They teach curious kids about the value of a strong Jewish identity, the support of a caring community, the knowledge of ethical precepts that can help guide their lives and, possibly, the solution to the Rubik’s Cube. We believe that no child who wants to attend a URJ summer program should be prevented from doing so just because their family can’t afford it. With your help, we’re raising the money that can make the difference for these kids.

Life is sort of like a Rubik’s Cube. There are billions of choices. And while there’s more than one solution and you don’t have to learn yours from someone else, it can really help. The musicians who entertain us at the Jonah Maccabee Concerts are all steeped in the traditions and values of our people and, through their music, they share Jewish wisdom. The URJ summer programs, like our guest artists, can help guide young people toward wonderful, wise and compassionate answers to the great questions about how to live life.

This ceremony of Havdalah, of separation between Shabbat and the new week, is a curious thing. It envisions a time when there won’t be a separation – not between days of the week, and not between you and me. It encourages us to cultivate the holy in our lives, to share with others without hesitation, and not withhold from those who are curious to learn. This concert embraces the vision of Havdalah, sharing the knowledge of goodness with those who want to learn, and laboring to end all separation between our brothers and sisters in the human family.

So whether you can solve the Rubik’s Cube or you’re just impressed by someone who can, we’re so grateful to share lights, spices, wine … and great music with you tonight. The world is full of good answers to most of our questions. Sometimes we’re the student, and sometimes the teacher. And sometimes we’re the one to enable others on their journeys. That’s what Jonah loved to do. He had a genius for it. And that’s what we’re all doing tonight.

Havdalah with Ken and Julie March 2014

Havdalah with Ken and Julie
March 2014

It was a wonderful night. Jonah, of course, would have love it: the music, the gift of summer wonder, and the fuss made over him.

Click on the concert logo above to see this year’s program booklet.

Billy

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Honoring Herb and Norman Friedman on Their 80th Birthday!

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Herb and Norman Friedman

Herb and Norman Friedman

We are so humbled that our good friends, Herb and Norman Friedman, asked that their friends honor them on the occasion of their 80th birthdays by making donations to The Jonah Maccabee Foundation. Mentshes par excellence!

Thank you, boys!

 


Herb and Norman Friedman (younger!)

Herb and Norman Friedman (younger!)

IN HONOR OF HERB AND NORMAN FRIEDMAN …

Laurie Kotton, Roy Kessler and Evelyn Kotton

Betsy and Jeff Cohen and family

Marla and Alan Siskind

Melanie and Arthur Wrubel

Richard and Seena Bloom

Jean Klapman

Kay and Irvin McKim

Ethel and Paul Levine

Lori and Brett Bernstein

Rachelle Bregman

Ottie Lockey

The Kaufmans

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Thank you … to those who, in 2014, have provided funds so we can make a difference in young people’s lives

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Matt Emmer.

Jane Emmer. This donation is made in honor of our dear friend Cantor Kerry Ben David. It is our way of thanking Kerry for officiating at our wedding. It was a beautiful, meaningful day, and we can think of no better way to thank Kerry.

Norman Friedman. In honor of Cantor Ellen’s and Rabbi Billy’s presence at the “Bronx Boys Turn 80” celebration.

Rabbi Mo Salth.

Dr. Helen Meltzer-Krim. In memory of Jonah.

Women of Reform Judaism at Westchester Reform Temple.

Cantor Tracy Scher. In honor of Rabbi Mara Nathan.

Roz Kirschenbaum. In honor of Cantor Suzanne Bernstein.

Andy Loose and Jill Garland.

Bob Geiger.

Susan Salidor.

Kathy Marks and David Fried. In memory of Philip Feiner, father of Paul Feiner.

Cantor Suzanne Bernstein and the Progressive Temple Beth Ahavath Sholom. In honor of Sara Tolchinsky and Aiden Dreskin, to thank you for the lovely program at PTBAS.

Dassi Citron, Bill Woolis, Simone and Danielle. Thank you for keeping Jonah’s spirit vibrant.

Frank Gonzalez and Pam Glantzman.

Sally Winter.

Joel Moss. In honor of Sara Tolchinsky for the time she spent with us at PTBAS.

Abby and Gabriel Tolchinsky. In honor of Cantor Suzanne Bernstein.

Ellyn Rothstein.

Eric and Meryl Rothenburg. In memory of Murray Rothenburg and Maxine McGavey.

Don Jones.

Rabbi Jason Holtz. On behalf of Bromley Reform Synagogue in the United Kingdom.

Richard Sarason.

Bruce Wolfson. In memory of Jonah and in honor of Tamara Wolfson.

Elaine Shapiro. In honor of my granddaughter Tamara Wolfson.

BillyThank you … to those who, in 2014, have provided funds so we can make a difference in young people’s lives
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JMF and Valentine’s Day … Love Enough to Change Worlds

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Logo.01aWe’re so pleased to have joined forces with Jessica Hendricks and The Brave Collection, selling exquisite jewelry made by artisans in Cambodia. The proceeds help these communities attain self-sufficiency and to combat human trafficking. At the same time, part of the proceeds come back to The Jonah Maccabee Foundation and will form part of a grant we’re making to The Play Group Theatre (PGT) in White Plains, NY. Jessica grew up at PGT alongside Jonah, where they both learned about the bravery that Jessica sees and nurtures in the Cambodian communities that The Brave Collection supports.

Our gratitude to all who participated in our Valentine’s Day project:

  • Amanda Battaglia
  • Sue Bensadon
  • Suzanne Bernstein
  • Rosalie Boxt
  • Michelle Butler
  • Billy Dreskin
  • Ellen Dreskin
  • Katie Dreskin
  • Ashley Fertig
  • Melissa Frey
  • Tracy Friend
  • Ilyssa Garson
  • Dan Geffen
  • Ivy Giserman Kiss
  • Wendy Leatherberry
  • Lexi Milford
  • Kara Millstein
  • Marisa Mittelman
  • Stacie Mittelman
  • Fran Uditsky Moss
  • Julie Newman
  • Keith Newman
  • Christine O’Connell
  • Liz Piper-Goldberg
  • Jennifer Prass
  • Isabel Rachlin
  • Roberta Roos
  • Tracey Scher
  • Susan Sirkman
  • Michael Skloff
  • Angela Stefano
  • Craig Taubman
  • Tamara Wolfson
  • Marjorie Zimmerman

The Jonah Maccabee Foundation is honored to have been part of this beautiful and inspiring project. Please visit The Brave Collection and learn more about Jessica’s important and sacred work.

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3 Days Only!! Valentine’s Day Gifts to Share Love and Healing Across the Globe! Wed, Feb 5 – Fri, Feb 7, 2014

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From the Dreskins

This Valentine’s Day, let your love change the world! We happily and proudly announce gifts that you can purchase online, receive in time for February 14, and that will positively impact the lives of people both here and abroad. Read on!

JMF and The Brave Collection for Valentine's Day!

One never knows the significance that can grow from any single moment in life, or where new partnerships and communities might find common ground. We first met Jessica Hendricks, founder of The Brave Collection, at The Play Group Theatre, one more shining-star of a human being who was nurtured by this incredible community in White Plains, NY. Jessica, now out of college, and encouraged by PGT to cultivate her “bravery within,” founded The Brave Collection after spending time in Cambodia and witnessing the striking contrast between the profound beauty of the communities she visited there and the tragic reality of human trafficking on the city streets.

The exquisite jewelry of The Brave Collection is designed and crafted by Cambodian artists. Its sales, Jessica tells us, “fight human trafficking, celebrate and sustain the work of fair-trade artisans, and join a global community of dreamers and change-makers.” Ellen bought her bracelet (and one for Katie!) the moment she saw her first Facebook ad.

Jessica knew Jonah, and she wanted to join us in honoring his life. It was her idea for us to collaborate on a special Jonah Maccabee Foundation Valentine’s Day sale of Brave Collection bracelets. Each purchase will generate monies both to support her efforts in Cambodia as well as The Jonah Maccabee Foundation. Together, we can nurture acts of bravery and compassion to help build lives of wholeness the world over.

There is a very small window of opportunity here – three days only (Wed, Feb 5 – Fri, Feb 7). Please read Jessica’s note below, follow the link, enter the special code (“JONAHMAC”) and show your love for someone (or several someones!) this Valentine’s Day (Jonah’s birthday too, by the way) by making a Brave purchase in their honor. Your love will receive a beautifully-crafted bracelet, with part of your purchase supporting The Jonah Maccabee Foundation and part of it fighting human trafficking in Cambodia. That’s a powerful present!

Dreskin.2013.08.#003a.HelenaMTThanks, as always, for partnering with us. We deeply appreciate your faith in our work. And, of course, we’re grateful that you join us in this journey of remembrance, love and human goodness.

Very sincerely,
Ellen, Billy, Katie and Aiden

 

From Jessica Hendricks
Founder, The Brave Collection

Jessica Hendricks, The Brave CollectionThe Brave Collection is a line of jewelry handmade in Cambodia to support local artisans post-genocide, and combat human trafficking. Each bracelet says “Brave” in Khmer as a celebration of freedom and universal Bravery. Growing up in the nest of The Play Group Theatre, I was encouraged to cultivate the bravery within to explore my own creative freedom, an invaluable gift for a child learning to navigate the waters of adolescence and find her own voice. I had the privilege of knowing Jonah in this special environment. The Bravery that he possessed as an artist, a leader, and a true individual, was an inspiration for me as an adolescent. Today, seeing the way his unimaginably Brave family has chosen to celebrate and honor his memory with such grace continues to fill me with courage and inspiration as an adult. Honoring the Bravery of this special family, and the untapped Bravery within young people who are just beginning their journey through life, we are overjoyed to be working with The Jonah Maccabee Foundation on this special collaboration to pass new opportunity along to the next generation of leaders and change-makers. Thank you all so much for your support. Stay Brave.

Jessica 

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Thank you … for supporting our Autumn 2013 campaign!

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Jonah'sYears@PGT.2013.11.BlogAd.Final.largeDear friends,

Our Autumn 2013 campaign has now come to a close. Our most successful yet, we are so very grateful to you for supporting us. The Jonah Maccabee Foundation endeavors to bring deeper possibilities for young people to live whole and healthy lives, and our promise to you is to fund projects that will further this goal.

Thank you for your love, your sharing in remembering Jonah’s life, and your confidence in our work. We wish you a very sweet year in 2014.

Ellen, Billy, Katie and Aiden


 

OUR CONTRIBUTORS

Rabbi David Saperstein and family.

Amy Dattner. With warmth and love for a Happy New Year from Peter and me.

Naomi and Richard Binenfeld. Happy and healthy New Year to all the Dreskins.

Rabbi Peter Rubinstein.

Daria Moore.

Rabbi Richard and Mindy Agler.

Michael Karnes. In memory of Manny and Charlotte Dubinsky.

Dale Glasser. In honor of Maya and Zachary Glasser.

Rick Lupert.

Rabbi Robbie Harris.

Susan Pardo and Steve Schwartz. Thank you for the wonderful work of your foundation!

Jo and Frank Hariton.

Dan Lucas and family.

Harriet Levine.

Susan Laufer.

Glynis Conyer.

Lee Perlman and Linda Riefberg. In honor of Jake Perlman’s article on JonahMac.org.

Cantor Julie Yugend-Green. In memory of Sam Sommer, 8-year-old son of Rabbis Phyllis and Michael Sommer.

Martine Klein and family.

Danielle Rodnizki.

Alice Passer and Barry Krieger.

Lexi Milford.

Janet Elam. Dedicating this night of Hanukkah to Jonah’s memory and the light that continues to shine through his loving family.

Yvette Shandel.

Julie Silver and Mary Connelly.

Nancy Korobkin.

Cantor Barbara Ostfeld.

Rabbi Emma Gottlieb.

Rabbi Steven Lowenstein.

Cantor Rosalie and Jason Boxt.

Beth Sher.

Cantor Vicki Axe.

Rabbi Larry Milder.

Wendy Jennis and Douglas Mishkin.

Rabbi Michael and Jody Weinberg.

Rabbi Mara Nathan.

Jeffrey Nakrin.

Madelyn Katz. In honor of the 30th anniversary “wedding” of Yaffa Weisman and Tins Hurt.

Cantor Ross Wolman. In memory of Jonah.

Kathy Glass.

Douglas Passon.

Rachel Kalmowitz.

Neil Weinstein.

Cantor Debra Stein.

Rabbi Dan Medwin.

Cantor Laura Coren. In memory of Jonah.

Rabbi Jan and Cantor Alane Katzew.

Lloyd and Roberta Roos.

Nicole Roos.

Madelyn Katz. In honor of Rabbi Karen Bender, with thanks for your inspiring presentation to my class!

Marilyn and Roger Price.

Kyla and Mitchell Schneider.

Liz Kanter Groskind.

Lisa Davis. In memory of Rochelle Eisenman.

Patty Linsky.

Saul Spangenberg.

Sharon Rich.

Aliza Garofalo.

Julie Newman.

Joan Funk. With love to Billy, Ellen, Katie and Aiden from sister/aunt Joan.

Susan, David and Rachel Berger.

Marc Margolius.

Tom Schaeffer.

Roberta Grossman.

Ira and Julia Levin.

George and Chris Markley.

Cantor Aviva Katzman.

John Kalter.

Steve Livingston.

Erica and Jay Leon.

Herb Friedman. In honor of Josh Benjamin becoming a Bar Mitzvah.

Margie Golub. In support of Billy’s mentioning twerking in his sermon, and all the good things that The Jonah Maccabee Foundation does.

Marian Milbauer.

Cameron Shriver.

Jeremy Wolfe.

Wendy Shermet.

David Crane and Jeffrey Klarik.

Rona Oberman and Deborah Franzblau.

Myron Katz. In memory of Rina Katz.

Robin M. Slater-Sherman.

Roberta, Roger and Allison Wetherbee.

Matt, Jenna and Gabby Bottiglieri.

Tracy Lilienfield and Barry Heins. In memory of Barbara Lilienfield, and with gratitude to Ellen for helping us create a beautiful celebration.

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The World Bids Reluctant Farewell to Superman Sam

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Superman Sam Sommer

Superman Sam Sommer

Our hearts go out to Phyllis and Michael Sommer on the death of their beautiful 8-year-old son, Superman Sam. It seems as if no place has been untouched, no corner a little bit darkened, by Sam’s death.

Rabbi Emma Gottlieb wrote an exquisite piece about Superman Sam, connecting his loss to that of another presence in her life, Jonah Dreskin. So sad, yet so very sweet.

You can read it here: http://pearlsandpitbulls.wordpress.com/2013/12/20/not-all-superheroes-wear-capes/

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Thank you … to those who, in 2013, have provided funds so we can make a difference in young people’s lives

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ByeBye.Jun2005.bDana Gershon and Rabbi Jonah Pesner.

Rabbi Sheldon Zimmerman.

Rabbi Marcus Burstein and Eric Larson.

Stacy Beyer. In memory of Edyth Zuckerman.

Cantor Jill Abramson.

Rev. Joseph Gilmore. In honor of Dr. Walter Wink.

Danny Siegel.

Gail Nalven.

Rabbi David and Kathy Gelfand. In memory of Jonah.

Elane, Fred, Heather and Adam Sommer. In memory of Elane’s parents, Harriet and Eli Bibi.

Milton and Barbara Marcus.

Pam and Jim Allyn.

Roberta Roos. In honor of Billy’s wonderful Rosh Hashanah sermon (not the twerking part).

Evan, Faye and Rachel Friedman. In honor of Josh Benjamin becoming a Bar Mitzvah.

Rabbi James Stone Goodman.

Lance Colie.

Rabbi Larry Karol.

Cantor Angela Buchdahl.

Lloyd and Roberta Roos. In honor of Ida Dreskin’s 90th birthday.

Rabbi Helene Ferris.

Austyn Richter.

Ellen, Billy, Katie and Aiden Dreskin. In memory of Jonah.

Peter, Marianne, Abigail and Isabelle Ripin. In memory of Herbert S. Ripin.

Harry and Abby Heiman. In honor of Billy, Ellen, Katie and Aiden. Keep working to make the world a better place. Love,

Harry & Abby

Dan Pliskin.

Lisa Lieberman Barzilai.

In loving memory of Elaine Friedman and Jonah Dreskin. From Herb Friedman; Faye, Evan and Rachel Friedman; Beth, Todd and Josh Benjamin; Patricia and Norman Friedman.

Dr. Madelyn Katz. In honor of Rabbi Dara Frimmer, in appreciation for your wonderful presentation to my class.

Richard and Naomi Binenfeld. In memory of Gregory Canty.

Cantor Tracy Scher. In honor of Kol Machar, the Temple Rodef Shalom Teen Choir.

Beth Sher and Leon Sher. Honoring Jonah’s memory.

Myron Katz. In memory of Rina.

Michelle Lesco.

Gail Nalven.

Eric Grossman and Besty Schorr.

Cantor Angela Buchdahl.

Carmi and Carol Neiger.

In honor of the 90th birthday of Ida Dreskin, with love from her 6 children. Joan Funk, Michael Dreskin, Tom Dreskin, Anthony Dreskin, James Dreskin and Billy Dreskin.

In honor of Susan and Jeffrey Sirkman, Maccabees, if ever there were ones! We are honored to be in your permanent cheerleading squad. The Schefflers – Michael, Carol, Madeline, Eliza and Susannah

Eddie and Roxanne Sukol.

Lisa Baydush. This donation is in honor of Ellen Dreskin… thank you for being such an inspiring teacher and deepening my Jewish knowledge. You are a gift beyond measure and I am so honored to know you!

Iris Bildstein. This donation is In honor of the lovely Katie Dreskin — Teacher of the Year!! Mazal Tov!!

Judith Mann.

Julie Newman.

Roberta Grossman.

David Crane and Jeffrey Klarik. With much love.

Rabbi Michael Lezak.

Harvey Feldman. In memory of my beloved parents, Nathan and Marian Feldman.

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Robin Slater-Sherman and Howard Sherman.

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